Meaningful Employment?
Last night I attended the monthly meeting of Beyond Us, an organization run by the indefatigable Nancy Beu for concerned parents of young adults on the autism spectrum. A Columbus Dispatch reporter was invited to hear some of our stories in the hopes of producing a feature. She listened carefully, asked great questions and took copious notes. The pattern of our stories is what was expected. Some of the young people attended. With the exception of my daughter who is the youngster in this group, the young people in the room were in their mid twenties to early thirties. They were college graduates with high GPA's and degrees in IT, literature, political science and pre- law, and library science. And home they sit, with all of this ability and all of these credentials, unemployed.
I know there are neurotypical Ph.Ds living in cars these days, and the prospect of any job search in November, 2009 is horrible. But how do we help our people who are so ABLED and yet who can't interview well or flourish in the purely social aspects of the job search and working day? Kerry could happily work hard in a horse farm caring for animals and cleaning out stalls. Can she live on that? She could hit the bricks working well today. (She's also highly intelligent and college material)It broke my heart to see these capable young people so underutilized. The point was made that they all begin to deteriorate the longer they sit home. Local agencies set up one young man-pre law-a volunteer position in the bad neighborhood where even the most glowering of us wouldn't be able to cope. It's as if they were setting him up to fail. I think that happens a lot. The point was made that agencies often do well with menial employment for persons whose difficulties are visible (wheelchairs, etc) but our kids look fine and I DON'T WANT MENIAL EMPLOYMENT. There should always be room for eager, well educated people who want nothing more than to work and contribute.
I can rant all I want but I feel like I'm pissing in the wind. That's why there was one local advocacy group called, God bless 'em-the Mothers From Hell......You go, girlfriends!
We need to take control of our kids lives. Do as much for them ourselves and as a group as we can. I don't know how but there has to be a way. Start a home grown business....find a house where they can live and make families together-start a landscaping business, do e books, find something they can do on line that requires little social interaction. Nobody is going to do it for us and I'm starting to believe that the more we try agencies the more drained we will all become.



